Wednesday, September 18, 2024

My Truth, or a Bit

  My husband doesn't know how to kiss. 

His kisses are very much movie or TV kisses. 

They aren't passionate. There's barely any tongue action. It's all very PG 13. 

He grew with porn magazines and videos all over the house and on display all the time. He never learned how to do what actually felt good and intimate.  

I need to kiss intimately for a while to get comfortable enough to go further.  But he never lets me be dominant with the kissing. He always has to be in control. Now we haven't kissed or made out for over a decade. 

How the hell am I supposed to explain this without hurting him and feeling terrible?